Shifting our Perspective from Distractions to Divine Appointments

Life is filled with unexpected twists and turns. Often, it’s during these unplanned moments that the true essence of human nature revealed. An unexpected request, even as mundane as asking someone to pick up your mail, has the power to transcend the boundaries of casual acquaintanceship and open the door to genuine friendships. Three benefits are experienced.

  1. Acts of Kindness: Seeding Friendships

 When someone asks for assistance with a simple task like collecting their mail, it presents an opportunity for kindness, empathy, and trustworthiness to shine. The person making the request…you, or your neighbor, demonstrates vulnerability, while the person accepting the responsibility for the task responds with compassion and willingness to help. Both parties will experience the value of mutual support. Isn’t the essence of true friendship?

  1. Shared Responsibility: Building Trust

Entrusting someone with a task that affects their personal belongings, home or dear ones, neighbors forge a bond on built trust. A connection based on dependability and trust begins to grow, laying the ground work for a deeper relationship.

  1. Unexpected Connections: Discovering Common Ground

 Just this past Sunday my father was attending an anniversary celebration of a church in the city of Milwaukee. Having recently been struggling to recover from a knee injury he has been using a cane to support him. As is often the case with new “cane users” on Sunday he left the cane in the car. On his way walking back a few blocks from the church to his car to go home, his knee gave out on him and he was trapped on the sidewalk unable to take another step.

Two men drove by, saw him struggling, stopped and helped him into the car and got him to his car.

These men happened to be men of color. I wonder what common ground was discovered in that moment. 

Maybe, just maybe, with this greater awareness we will continue to grow in seeing these unexpected requests not as distractions, but actual Divinely appointed interruptions helping us connect with others in more meaningful ways.

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